IN LAW PROBLEM SOLUTIONS
Are in a situation where your in-laws are certainly abusive and harmful to you or your relationship?
Are the problems with your in-laws causing you true grief through their words or action?
Do your in-laws totally dislike you?
Do you just want to change their minds about their perspective towards you?
Does you Mother in law pretends to be a perfect angel while badmouthing you and all that you do or your family?
Are your in-law forcing their way to control your family?
Are your in-laws the kind of parents who have difficulty in letting go of their parental roles and keep on offering unwanted advises?
Is your mother-in-law trying to chase you away from your man of your life?
when you marry someone, it often also means marrying into the family. As you integrate into their family, you’ll need to make adjustments and be more
understanding. Sometimes, their attitude or opinions may differ from yours, but that doesn’t mean you should give up on trying to establish a good relationship with them.
Can you relate to this? Have you ever experienced not feeling accepted by your spouse’s family? Have you ever felt like, no matter how much effort you put into it, you just can’t get them to genuinely like you? Let’s take at some of the most common problems with in-laws
1. You Feel They have no boundaries
There are in-laws who don’t respect your privacy; they show up unannounced and just assume they are always welcome. They also lack boundaries when it comes to intimate details, good communication is good, but oversharing can lead to awkwardness, embarrassment, and resentment. Sometimes in case of fights try not to include the in laws. I have powerful spells to solve out that issue for you within no time.
2. Are they dramatic or overly sensitive
When you’re honest, they feel like it’s a direct attack on them. These types of in-laws can blow everything out of proportion.“You don’t have a history with your in-laws, you didn’t grow up with them, so you don’t know how they’ll react to criticism. You didn't marry your in laws so they don't know you more than your spouse.
3. You feel they don’t respect you
A lack of respect can manifest in many ways. In-laws who don’t respect you can treat you like a child, ignore you, or gossip about you behind your back. Whatever they do, it seems like it’s rooted in a deep lack of respect for you.
Are your in-laws pushy or want to be involved in every little decision? This could prove to be toxic to your marriage as well as your parenting journey. Though their advice can be invaluable, you need to firmly draw the line. They need to allow you to sort things out as a couple before offering unsolicited advice or help.
